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Two’s Company Three’s Even Better by the Secret Vixen

Two’s Company Three’s Even Better by the Secret Vixen

Two's Company Three's Even Better by the Secret Vixen Considering how shocked I was to learn of my husband’s desire to share me with other men, it was only a couple of weeks before I found myself preparing for my first sexual encounter with someone, who was not my...

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Sexual Terms and meanings used in The Lifestyle

Sexual Terms and meanings used in The Lifestyle

Sexual Terms and meanings used in The Lifestyle The Lifestyle can be a minefield of acronyms, abbreviations and its own language in profiles, messages, forums and groups (eg Airtight, soft swing, mfm, cuckold,hotwife etc.) We at VXN Lifestyle  have compiled a list of...

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My Journey as a Stag and Sexual Freedom

My Journey as a Stag and Sexual Freedom

  My Journey as a Stag and Sexual Freedom Founder VXN Lifestyle My Introduction This is a true and laid bare account of how I came from being a Scottish Civil Servant (Criminal Justice) to creating and owning the adult lifestyle website vxnlifestyle.com which...

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My Journey Begins by the Secret Vixen

My Journey Begins by the Secret Vixen

My Journey Begins by the Secret Vixen https://secretvixen.blog/2019/02/28/the-journey-begins/ Thanks for joining me! As I danced the night away with my university friends (circa 2007) to Scouting For Girls’ She’s So Lovely, the lyrics “She’s flirty, turned thirty and...

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The juggle of a polyamorous lifestyle

The juggle of a polyamorous lifestyle

The juggle of a polyamorous lifestyle The juggle of a polyamorous lifestyle, If you’re here, you probably have an idea about polyamory, but let’s start from the beginning so everyone is up to speed. The simple answer is, well, not so simple! Polyamory means different...

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Let’s talk Cuckolding versus Stag & Vixen Sex

Let’s talk Cuckolding versus Stag & Vixen Sex

Let’s talk Cuckolding versus Stag & Vixen Sex More and more we hear from members of the lifestyle for whom, like us, Stag & Vixens sex resonates more than the more ubiquitous Cuckolding. In conversation we've seen, heard and sensed people having "eureka"...

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Get a Taste of our VXN Erotic Stories

Get a Taste of our VXN Erotic Stories

Get a Taste of our VXN Erotic Stories We’re thrilled to share with you a teaser of VXN Ann's latest erotic story. If you want to read more and have full access to our erotic stories, visit our erotic stories page. This….this is why she played ‘…Just then she heard the...

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Exploring the Hot Wife Lifestyle with VXN

Exploring the Hot Wife Lifestyle with VXN

Exploring the Hot Wife Lifestyle with VXN If you’re new to the lifestyle and deciding how you want to play, there’s lots to discover as you explore the opportunities of fulfilling your sexual fantasies. We can’t cover everything in one blog, so in this feature we're...

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Could you be our Next Contributor?

Could you be our Next Contributor?

Could you be our Next Contributor? Got something big and juicy to share? Whether you are an old timer or are new to the lifestyle, if you've got a story to tell and fancy contributing to the #vxnlifestyle blog, we'd love to hear from you. SHARE YOUR EROTIC STORIES....

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Come Together with Lelo. Sex Talks.

Come Together with Lelo. Sex Talks.

One of our favourite toy brands, Lelo, have given us the perfect excuse to get hot under the collar on our daily commute, launching their Sex Talks by LELO podcast. COME TOGETHER WITH LELO. LELO is the world's leading designer brand for intimate lifestyle products,...

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