Let’s talk Cuckolding versus Stag & Vixen Sex
More and more we hear from members of the lifestyle for whom, like us, Stag & Vixens sex resonates more than the more ubiquitous Cuckolding.
In conversation we’ve seen, heard and sensed people having “eureka” moments when they’ve realised they have been identifying wrongly all this time. No bother! We love it people realise they have found their place and know this is the lifestyle for them. Plus, just because you enjoy Stag & Vixen sex now doesn’t mean you can’t have fun experiencing other sexual lifestyles. More play = more pleasure!
So, let’s start with cuckolding. Cuckolding is based on the idea of enjoyment through humiliation. Generally, the bull or hotwife, or both, humiliate the cuck through denial, jealousy, submissiveness and shame, to give the cuck his sexual thrill. The cuck is not allowed to join in or pleasure himself whilst being cuckolded. Whilst cuckolding is a lifestyle that suits many, humiliation isn’t part of the enjoyment for everyone.
What about Stag & Vixen sex?
If humiliation isn’t your pleasure of choice, perhaps the Stag & Vixen lifestyle is for you. Based around the idea that everyone at the party is a willing participant, the Bull plays with the Vixen whilst the Stag looks on enjoying the scene and getting horny at the thought of reclaiming his partner. Whilst many Stags choose to remain a voyeur during the encounter, as long as everyone is comfortable, the Bull can also join in.
New to the party?
For many men, the realities of seeing their wife have sex with another man can be difficult, so if you’re new to the Stag & Vixen lifestyle, make sure you and your partner talk it all through and have your own set of ‘party rules’ to keep you both comfortable.
Now you’ve read a little more, are you ready to join the Stag & Vixen global community and play? Sign up here
And, as always , play safe.