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Questions and Answers By Secret Vixen

Questions and Answers By Secret Vixen

A big thank you to The Secret Vixen https://secretvixen.blog/ for sharing this with https://vxnlifestyle.com/  My Stag and I have been blown away by the positive reception we’ve had from our followers who have joined us on our journey. When I first began writing the...

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Two’s Company Three’s Even Better by the Secret Vixen

Two’s Company Three’s Even Better by the Secret Vixen

Considering how shocked I was to learn of my husband’s desire to share me with other men, it was only a couple of weeks before I found myself preparing for my first sexual encounter with someone, who was not my husband. Before I go on to describe that eventful...

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Sexual Terms and meanings used in The Lifestyle

Sexual Terms and meanings used in The Lifestyle

The Lifestyle can be a minefield of acronyms, abbreviations and its own language in profiles, messages, forums and groups (eg Airtight, soft swing, mfm, cuckold,hotwife etc.) We at https://vxnlifestyle.com  have compiled a list of the more common phrases used by our...

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The Keys And Anklets Podcast with DevotedStagUK

The Keys And Anklets Podcast with DevotedStagUK

Episode 67 - A Conversation with DevotedStagUK: Living Your Truth The process of discovering and living out your truth is courageous and always worth while. Michael C. Is joined by DevotedStagUK to discuss his journey into the hotwifing lifestyle with his wife....

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Edinburgh Gent my Introduction

Edinburgh Gent my Introduction

This is a true and laid bare account of how I came from being a Scottish Civil Servant (Criminal Justice) to creating and owning the adult lifestyle website vxnlifestyle.com which also has a social media following of nearly 30k people and moving from Edinburgh...

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My Journey Begins Kindly Donated by the Secret Vixen

My Journey Begins Kindly Donated by the Secret Vixen

https://secretvixen.blog/2019/02/28/the-journey-begins/ Thanks for joining me! As I danced the night away with my university friends (circa 2007) to Scouting For Girls’ She’s So Lovely, the lyrics “She’s flirty, turned thirty and that’s the age a girl gets really...

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The juggle of a polyamorous lifestyle

The juggle of a polyamorous lifestyle

What is Polyamory? If you’re here, you probably have an idea about polyamory, but let’s start from the beginning so everyone is up to speed. The simple answer is, well, not so simple! Polyamory means different things to different people – however we like the way...

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Loving your work, Swingfessions Swinger Comic

Loving your work, Swingfessions Swinger Comic

We just had to share the work of our friends at Swingfessions Swinger Comic. Jane and Jay share their lifestyle through their witty, naughty, bang on comic strips. With a growing following and regularly featuring in ASN Lifestyle Magazine, they are one to watch in our...

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Let’s talk cuckolding versus Stag & Vixen Sex

Let’s talk cuckolding versus Stag & Vixen Sex

More and more we hear from members of the lifestyle for whom, like us, Stag & Vixens sex resonates more than the more ubiquitous Cuckolding. In conversation we've seen, heard and sensed people having "eureka" moments when they’ve realised they have been...

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Get a Taste of our VXN Erotic Stories

Get a Taste of our VXN Erotic Stories

We’re thrilled to share with you a teaser of VXN Ann's latest erotic story. If you want to read more and have full access to our erotic stories, visit our erotic stories page. This….this is why she played ‘…Just then she heard the car door slam and the garage door...

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Exploring the Hot Wife Lifestyle with VXN

Exploring the Hot Wife Lifestyle with VXN

If you’re new to the lifestyle and deciding how you want to play, there’s lots to discover as you explore the opportunities of fulfilling your sexual fantasies. We can’t cover everything in one blog, so in this feature we're looking at the hotwife. What is a hotwife...

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Could you be our Next Contributor?

Could you be our Next Contributor?

Got something big and juicy to share? Whether you are an old timer or are new to the lifestyle, if you've got a story to tell and fancy contributing to the #vxnlifestyle blog, we'd love to hear from you. SHARE YOUR EROTIC STORIES. We've got ambitious plans for our...

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Connecting in Quarantine

Connecting in Quarantine

Most people have been in some kind of isolation or social distancing set up for several weeks now and the struggles and juggles are real. We’re not here to talk about how to entertain the kids, make an office in your spare room or tell you that now is a good time to...

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Come Together with Lelo. Sex Talks.

Come Together with Lelo. Sex Talks.

One of our favourite toy brands, Lelo, have given us the perfect excuse to get hot under the collar on our daily commute, launching their Sex Talks by LELO podcast. COME TOGETHER WITH LELO. LELO is the world's leading designer brand for intimate lifestyle products,...

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